Day 13 = 3 Confessions of your choice.

This one seems very hard to do because I am for the most part an open book. Not that I don't have my secrets I do but now the big question is Hmmm, which ones to share?!

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#1.  I am a grow woman who is an adult thumb sucker. Been sucking my thumb for 33 years.

#2. I started using drugs/alcohol at age 13, my coach/teacher was the one who 1st gave it to me.

#3. As a lesbian I can still say there was one and only one man whom I loved and thought I was going to marry, he died.
 
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Day 11 is your favorite Quote/s:
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Day 10 = If you could only live off of one food
and one beverage for the rest of your days,
what would it be?
  
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Honey Garlic Chicken Wings

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Chocolate Milk

 
Day 9 is...
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My Pet Peeves:

Talking during a movie.
Qualifying offensive statements with: “No offence, but….”
Chewing with your mouth open.
Reading over others’ shoulders.
Participating in chain emails.
Complaining about offensive TV shows/blogs/sites/books...etc…JUST TURN IT OFF! DON'T PARTICAPATE!
Owning a ‘handbag dog’ and pampering it.
Wearing backpacks on public transit.
Not holding a door open for others.
Hanging a toilet paper roll back to front.
Mowing the lawn at 7am.
Scraping cutlery together or on the plate when eating.
Dressing up pets thinking it’s cute...its not cute, it’s animal cruelty.
People that do not flush the toliet in public.
Having to talk to customer service people over the phone.
The noise of a plastic candy wrapper or crinkling a plastic water bottle.
The expression that "Nobody can hurt you unless you let them."
Wasting peoples time with a list of pet peeves.





 
~Day 8~      3 Things you want to say to different people.


#1.   

Dear "Sperm Donor" Dad,

                
    It breaks my heart that I am not good enough for you. I also know that I refuse to try and live up to your expections. I will never reach them, I am not perfect. Never will be. You say you want to be in my life to celebrate the good, well f**k you. You never walked with me in the dark, so you will not eat my cake in celebration.

Your forgotten 1st born,
                                Valerie-Lynn



#2. 

Dear "Beautiful Angel" (My Crush),

      You make my heart smile. =)  You are so beautiful and I kiss your picture everyday. I dream of holding you and treating you like the princess you are. Thinking of you always betters my day. I think you are such a hottie babe. Being with you sexy would make my dreams come true. I would do anything to make you feel as special as you are. I am falling in love with you and I wish I could tell you. xoxoxo

Love you so much,
Valynn



#3.

To "My Monsters" (Abusers),

      Maybe not today but one day we'll move on. You will no longer rent space in our head, heart, or body. We will work everyday to make you less and less. We will heal! You have not touched our soul!

Forgiving you doesn't let you off the hook, it takes the hook outta me.
I am strong!

~Me/Us
(Valynn & Alters)
               
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Day 7 ~ Do you read?  YES! What are your favorite books?
My favorite author ever:
Torey L. Hayden
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This is my favorite book from Torey (pictured)

I also love by Torey L. Hayden:

One Child
The Tiger's Child
Murphy's Boy
Twilight Children

 

Day 6: What Band or Musician is most important to you?

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Sarah Smith is one of my most favorite artists. She sings solo as well as in a band called THE JOYS. They are Canadian!
Her voice just melts my heart and she has a beautiful smile. She always takes time out for her fans and followers. I had a chance to meet her and sit down for a talk before I even knew she was a musician. Her personality just shines through and I am happy to have met her.
 
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SARAH AND ME

^^^^^My favorite song from the band "THE JOYS" ^^^^^

 
Day 5 Challenge = 5 Places you would like to visit.

Sounds easy but it got me thinking for sure…

I am gonna do this counting down my top 5 from least to best.

#5- Hohenzollern Castle, Germany

Burg Hohenzollern is a castle situated about 50 km south of Stuttgart, Germany, on top of Mount Hohenzollern at an elevation of 855 meters. It was originally constructed in the first part of the 11th century and it is considered home to the Hohenzollern family that came to power during the Middle Ages and ruled Prussia and Brandenburg until the end of World War I.

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#4- New York -Central Park (Would love to go in the Fall time of year, I heart trees!)

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#3- San Francisco Gay District - Castro

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#2- CN Tower (I have lived in Toronto, ON Canada My whole life and never been up to the top of the Tower.)

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AND DRUMROLL PLEASE….

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#1- WALT DISNEY World Cinderella’s Castle. (My dream fantasy is to have a slow dance with Cinderella! LOL but it’s so true!) How cute am I?

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Day 4 = The Meaning Behind your Tumblr Name



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I have 2 Tumblr Blogs.

One is under Elite Squad and the other is Beautiful Handful

ELITE SQUAD:

I choose this for my SVU Appreciation Blog, I just thought of it and it sounded original. Never seen anyone else use it for an SVU blog/site before. So that is that simple. LOL

BEAUTIFUL HANDFUL:

This name means a lot to me and is also the title to my website: http://beautifulhandful.weebly.com/

One day when I was in group therapy I was sharing that I was sadden that I am such a handful to people and I feel bad about that, as a person with DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) I tend to need a lot of time. Our therapist goes on to say to me: “You know Valynn, you are a handful but what a beautiful handful you are!” My heart felt so good because she validated my feelings and at the same time gave me a compliment that turned into my new nickname. She is an awesome and beautiful spirit herself. Thanks girl!

Elite Squad Link: http://elite-squad.tumblr.com/

Beautiful Handful Link: http://beautifulhandful.tumblr.com/